Steve Pavlina, one of my favorite bloggers, wrote a cool article about achieving peak motivation.
Now. I'll go ahead and warn y'all that Pavlina is pretty out there when he goes new-age on you. You'll notice this in his fear/love usage that just smacks of Donnie Darko.
That all being said, the man is quite insightful. In particular I like his two paths to the same destination viewpoint - I'll be adopting it with some major changes. Namely, I'll take off the rather large biases he puts forth and strip the new-age out of it.
Quick Summary
Here's the train of thought:
- There exists a point at which one has the maximum leverage to achieve goals
- In terms of one's self and one's relation to the external world, this point is the same regardless of one's goals
- This point can be reached in many ways
- It is easier to keep your eyes on a single goal than multiple balanced goals
- Thus, one should pick a particular goal
PolaritySo what the hell am I talking about?//Skip this if you did not read the article I linked toPavlina's idea is that one should polarize and concentrate on either improving one's own life or improving the lives of others. In his view, people should work towards one of these goals relentlessly. Their overarching goal will help motivate them. In the end they will find that they end up at the same spot regardless of which path they took. The self-serving person will find that helping others gives them more interpersonal leverage and the world-serving person will find that they are in no position to help others if they themselves are in a weak spot. Apart from his new-agey views here I have some issues with the person who lives to serve others. That doesn't make sense. They are serving themselves - they just happen to enjoy serving others.
//OK. you can start reading againMy view is that there are two sources of motivation for people. These can be described as internal motivation and external motivation; however, it might be more accurate to say that one's actions can be measured against internal or external metrics. Let's call the person who uses external metrics an outworker and the person who uses internal metrics an inworker to signify what they are trying to fulfill.
The hypothesis here is largely the same as Pavlina's. Both inworkers and outworkers will find that they are maximally fulfilling their goals at the same point. Inworkers will find that they must compromise with the outside world in order to further themselves and outworkers will find that they need to maintain enough personal vigor to actively implement their external agendas.
Polarity applied to myselfSo where do I stand?Ok. I suck at this. I love improving myself. I generally have huge inworker tendencies. But then here's the kicker. The things that I love most are all outworker things.
Helping out a friend in need feels great to me - helping out a friend in want feels trashy. I'm not really sure why, but that's just how I do things. If you need a ride somewhere I'm not going anyways, do
not ask me first. I'll turn you down merely because you asked me first. True story folks. But if you have to leave in 5 minutes and it's 02:30 and you're about to call a taxi because your friend who was going to give you a ride is nowhere to be found... well then I'd love to help you out.
I love how messed up that is. I'm not sure how I reconcile the outworker core I have with my predominantly inworker nature. Of course, there's no real need to do that, but I do believe that it's easier to be motivated about a single goal than a couple of goals that are often at odds. It's especially important in maintaining that motivation for an extended period of time. So what is a silly man like me supposed to do?
Well. I'm a stubborn dude. So I think I'll conclude that picking a path is the rational thing to do because it makes the rest far easier. And then I'll ignore that and continue to strive for this mythical point of greatest leverage with out polarizing. :D
Note: I e-mailed quite a few people about thsi article so my inworker/outworker concept is really just Pavlina's ideas filtered through a bunch of smart people's thoughts and processed by yours truly. Thanks to those that chatted with me!